|Hey honey... can you help me with something, pleeassseee??????|
Be an active participant in your sex lives, wild women. Pat Covant, PhD and author of What Smart Couples Know, says that a lot of men would like to be touched more, seduced more. When was the last time you initiated a time of intimacy with the hubs, gals? It’s Friday night – what better time than tonight? Tomorrow afternoon? This weekend? Wake him up at 3am!!!! Friday, Saturday AND Sunday! C’mon girls, get in touch with that inner wild woman and put a gigantic smile on your bridegroom’s face and a glimmer in his eye that nobody but you and he will understand. It’s ain’t a wife’s “d-u-t-y”, girlfriend, it’s her joy and privilege to make love to/with her husband. Talk about a gift from God – read the Song of Solomon in the Old Testament lately? Check it out – it’s waaayyy more steamier than any shade of gray!
Can't you just imagine, "Oh honey, I need your help with something... can you do something for me that will be really good for my heart, strengthen my immune system, lower my risk for cancer and make me look younger?" "Sure, dear,what?" "Ummm.... welll... (whisper)" WHAT? SURE!!!!! He'll never think of that "honey-do" list the same way!!!
So be a hot tamale, chichita, and make sure your hubby goes to work on Monday morning tired as can be… but very, very happy!!!!! Do it for your relationship, do it for your health, do it for fun, but DO IT!!!!! Regularly and well. And if you need some creative ideas, check out these wonderful resources:
1. The Gift of Sex by Cliff and Joyce Penner
2. Intended for Pleasure by Ed & Gayle Wheat
3. A Celebration of Sex by Douglas Rosenau
4. Intimate Issues by Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus
5. Sheet Music by Kevin Leman
Blessings and a wonderful (and active, if you get my drift...wink, wink... nod, nod) weekend,